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Originally Posted by fasternyou929
I understand it's a qualifier and that's exactly why I put it right at the beginning of the sentence. That post was simply "this is what regret means to me, what does it mean to you?"
I just think people go way out of their way to rationalize everything so they can say "I have no regrets". So I was asking... what does regret mean to the people that say that?
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Ah, well I stated what I feel it is. I think alot depends too on your mindset.
Me, I am very much an "in this moment" person. I used to spend all my time thinking about the past. Then I spent all my time worrying about the future. Both were allowing me to lead a less than pleasant and peaceful life, so I make myself live only in the current time, for this day or this week. (Dont get me wrong, I plan ahead financially, etc, I just dont stress about what I dont know will happen).
If I look back, its to remember good things, if I look forward, it for the good things. Regret is to me, a thing of sadness and I dont have room for it in my life.