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Originally Posted by azoomm
I'm sorry, what?
I made the decision. I don't regret it. But, I am most certainly haunted by it. It was the absolute right decision, there is no doubt in my mind. BUT, I remember it like it was yesterday. The same goes for each woman I have talked to that has been through it.
It isn't as though I would break down in tears over it when it's brought up. But, it's something I went through that was VERY traumatic. Both physically [I distinctly remember being told to not scream], and emotionally [cried for a week].
Anyone that tells you they simply moved on is not telling you the whole truth.
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I'm not saying it's not traumatic for some women, or something that will haunt them. That wasn't my point.
My point was that the popular view put out there is that it's traumatic for every woman and every woman will regret it. It just isn't the case.