getting a TRO - Page 5

nhgunnut · 09-17-2009, 10:35 AM

Disclaimer:I have a very jaded view as I work in a corrections setting.
RO as a rule work in the cases of where the individual in question is still using a pro social value system. IE thy basically are law abiding and fear going to jail. Or if they fear they have something to lose. Those who have done time, usually have figured out that going to jail is not as frightening as it one was ( in far to many case I see going to jail or prison improves the over all quality of their lives) So the RO has little or no deterrent value.
The other issue to remember is that an RO can be acted upon only after it has been violated. So if you get one remember the police can not act until it has been violated and I would recommend strongly that You take what ever steps you would take to protect yourself if it wasn't there. If there is documented violations (in most states it takes 2 or 3 violations where no bodily injury is involved before a judge is going jail someone less if injury is present)
In all cases advocate and protect yourself. The police are a reactive organisation who can only respond once the law has been broken. The longest and most important 20 minutes of most people lives are the time between when they dial 911 and the time the police arrive. Protect yourself!

z06boy · 09-17-2009, 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by CasterTroy

I'm sure that is comforting to misshell

Well I didn't post it until AFTER I learned it was a female in her situation and not her ex boyfriend/husband.

It is also to show that the piece of paper can be worth it in some cases...it just depends on the individual that it is sworn out on. Some just don't give a chit.

z06boy · 09-17-2009, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by nhgunnut

Disclaimer:I have a very jaded view as I work in a corrections setting.
RO as a rule work in the cases of where the individual in question is still using a pro social value system. IE thy basically are law abiding and fear going to jail. Or if they fear they have something to lose. Those who have done time, usually have figured out that going to jail is not as frightening as it one was ( in far to many case I see going to jail or prison improves the over all quality of their lives) So the RO has little or no deterrent value.
The other issue to remember is that an RO can be acted upon only after it has been violated. So if you get one remember the police can not act until it has been violated and I would recommend strongly that You take what ever steps you would take to protect yourself if it wasn't there. If there is documented violations (in most states it takes 2 or 3 violations where no bodily injury is involved before a judge is going jail someone less if injury is present)
In all cases advocate and protect yourself. The police are a reactive organisation who can only respond once the law has been broken. The longest and most important 20 minutes of most people lives are the time between when they dial 911 and the time the police arrive. Protect yourself!

Fact

MissHell · 09-17-2009, 12:58 PM

Thanks all! I am taking all this in for consideration.

Quick281 · 09-18-2009, 06:01 AM

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Originally Posted by karl_1052

Fixed it for you

So true.

I say get the RO for the sake of a paper trail.

Kaneman · 09-18-2009, 09:12 AM

In summary:

Get the TRO.
Get a gun
Get a taser
Fuck her sister
Buy a samurai sword just in case.

MissHell · 09-18-2009, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Kaneman

In summary:

Get the TRO.
Get a gun
Get a taser
Fuck her sister
Buy a samurai sword just in case.

I'll get right on that!

I might do #1, don't think the other items will be happening.

Jet · 09-20-2009, 11:50 AM

but #4 is still a possibility?

Flexin · 09-20-2009, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Jet

but #4 is still a possibility?

Whats up Jet?

#4 should be done with video and pics. I don't think a live webcast is too much to ask.

James

MissHell · 09-20-2009, 02:17 PM

Okay... will work on #4 too.

With video.

09-17-2009, 10:35 AM	#41
nhgunnut gun totin redneck Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: South West New Hampshire Moto: turbo busa 999 Duc Goldwing & Victory Posts: 1,130	Disclaimer:I have a very jaded view as I work in a corrections setting. RO as a rule work in the cases of where the individual in question is still using a pro social value system. IE thy basically are law abiding and fear going to jail. Or if they fear they have something to lose. Those who have done time, usually have figured out that going to jail is not as frightening as it one was ( in far to many case I see going to jail or prison improves the over all quality of their lives) So the RO has little or no deterrent value. The other issue to remember is that an RO can be acted upon only after it has been violated. So if you get one remember the police can not act until it has been violated and I would recommend strongly that You take what ever steps you would take to protect yourself if it wasn't there. If there is documented violations (in most states it takes 2 or 3 violations where no bodily injury is involved before a judge is going jail someone less if injury is present) In all cases advocate and protect yourself. The police are a reactive organisation who can only respond once the law has been broken. The longest and most important 20 minutes of most people lives are the time between when they dial 911 and the time the police arrive. Protect yourself! __________________ Evolution requires a body count, Count or be Counted!

09-18-2009, 09:12 AM	#46
Kaneman AMA Supersport Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Odessa, TX Moto: 2000 Honda CBR1100XX Blackbird Posts: 4,931	In summary: Get the TRO. Get a gun Get a taser Fuck her sister Buy a samurai sword just in case. __________________ 1982 Honda XR80 - blown motor, 1993 Kawasaki ZX6D - sold, 2001 Suzuki Bandit 1200S - sold, 1984 Honda Magna - sold, 2001 Kawasaki ZRX1200R - blown motor, 2007 Suzuki DL1000 V-Strom - totalled, 2003 Yamaha FZ1 - sold, 1994 Honda Magna - sold, 2001 Honda CBR600F4i - sold, 1998 Suzuki DR350 - stolen, 1989 Honda Super Magna - sold, 2007 Yamaha Stratoliner, 2000 Honda CBR 1100XX Blackbird

09-17-2009, 12:58 PM	#44
MissHell Followed the crowd over. Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Hawaii Moto: '07 Yahama R6 Posts: 911	Thanks all! I am taking all this in for consideration.

09-20-2009, 11:50 AM	#48
Jet Street Stunter Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 54	but #4 is still a possibility?

09-20-2009, 02:17 PM	#50
MissHell Followed the crowd over. Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Hawaii Moto: '07 Yahama R6 Posts: 911	Okay... will work on #4 too. With video.